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What does it mean?
Defending yourself against ridicule often makes the situation more embarrassing.
In plain terms
Trying to fight off mockery usually makes it worse.
What can you take from it?
Avoid over-defending when mocked to prevent more ridicule.

Where it applies

  • social conflicts
  • public criticism
  • personal image

Putting it to work

  • ignoring mockery
  • accepting feedback
  • avoiding defensiveness

Questions to consider

  • When should you defend yourself?
  • Does humor help diffuse mockery?

Another view

Sometimes silence can be seen as admitting guilt.

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