'Don't you want to join us?' I was recently asked by an acquaintance when he ran across me alone after midnight in a coffeehouse that was already almost deserted. 'No, I don't,' I said.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- The speaker rejects social pressure to join others, preferring solitude even in a nearly empty place.
- In plain terms
- I choose to be alone rather than pretend to want company.
- What can you take from it?
- Solitude can be a deliberate choice over forced socialization.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When is it better to be alone?
- How do you know you truly want company?
Another view
Rejecting interaction might sometimes prevent needed connection.
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