Don't judge a man by the tales of others.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Form your own judgments about people rather than relying on what others say about them. Secondhand stories distort reality.
- In plain terms
- Judge people by your own observations, not by what others tell you.
- What can you take from it?
- Avoid forming opinions based on gossip or secondhand stories.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How often do you trust others opinions over experience?
- What biases might your sources have?
Another view
Sometimes secondhand information is all you have available.
More from G. I. Gurdjieff
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