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'Well, Ah see Mouth-Almighty is still sittin' in de same place. And Ah reckon they got me up in they mouth now.' 'Yes indeed. You know if you pass some people and don't speak tuh suit 'em dey got tuh go way back in yo' life and see whut you ever done. They know mo' 'bout yuh than you do yo' self. They done 'heard' 'bout you just what they hope done happened.' 'If God don't think no mo' 'bout 'em than Ah do, they's a lost ball in de high grass.'

Zora Neale Hurston#6

GossipJudgmentPerceptionReputationTruth

About this quote

What does it mean?
Others often judge you based on hearsay and their own expectations rather than reality.
In plain terms
People talk about you without knowing the truth.
What can you take from it?
Do not let gossip define your self-worth.

Where it applies

  • social conflict
  • misunderstandings
  • community dynamics

Putting it to work

  • ignore rumors
  • focus on truth
  • build reputation

Questions to consider

  • How much do you care what others say?
  • Who knows you really?

Another view

Public perception still impacts social standing.

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