Skip to content
quotesby

He had not stopped desiring her for a single instant. He found her in the dark bedrooms of captured towns, especially in the most abject ones, and he would make her materialize in the smell of dry blood on the bandages of the wounded, in the instantaneous terror of the danger of death, at all times and in all places. He had fled from her in an attempt to wipe out her memory, not only through distance but by means of a muddled fury that his companions at arms took to be boldness, but the more her image wallowed in the dunghill of war, the more the war resembled Amaranta. That was how he suffered in exile, looking for a way of killing her with his own death. (p. 148)

Gabriel Garcia Marquez#13

LoveMemoryObsessionWar

About this quote

What does it mean?
A soldier's obsession with Amaranta persists through war and exile, haunting every dangerous moment.
In plain terms
Love remains constant even amid war and suffering.
What can you take from it?
Memory can survive extreme hardship.

Where it applies

  • grieving after conflict
  • processing PTSD

Putting it to work

  • writing to process grief
  • naming persistent memories

Questions to consider

  • What memory follows you everywhere?
  • How does war reshape love?

Another view

Romanticizing war memories can be harmful.

More from Gabriel Garcia Marquez

  1. 'A person fucks himself up so much,' Colonel Aureliano Buendia said, 'Fucks himself up so much just so that six weak fairies can kill him and he can't do anyth…

    Permalink to quote #12
  2. Carmelita Montiel, a twenty-year-old virgin, had just bathed in orange-blossom water and was strewing rosemary leaves over Pilar Ternera's bed when the shot ra…

    Permalink to quote #14
  3. In the shattered schoolhouse where for the first time he had felt the security of power, a few feet from the room where he had come to know the uncertainty of …

    Permalink to quote #11

Related quotes

  1. Why, when the world gets to understand about it I expect that two men or two women, or a man and a woman, will come in here, and say to me, 'We have quarrelled…

    Edward BellamyEdward Bellamy quote #6
  2. Some may have blamed you that you took away The verses that could move them on the day When, the ears being deafened, the sight of the eyes blind With lightnin…

    William Butler YeatsWilliam Butler Yeats quote #56
  3. Life on earth is a hand-to-hand mortal combat... between the law of love and the law of hate.

    Jose MartiJose Marti quote #1