Why, when the world gets to understand about it I expect that two men or two women, or a man and a woman, will come in here, and say to me, 'We have quarrelled and outraged each other, we have injured our friend, our wife, our husband; we regret, we would forgive, but we cannot, because we remember. Put between us the atonement of forgetfulness, that we may love each other as of old.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Bellamy envisions a future where people can replace memory with forgetfulness to restore love.
- In plain terms
- He asks for forgetfulness to help enemies love each other again.
- What can you take from it?
- Forgetting can enable reconciliation.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Does forgetting help healing?
- Can you forget and move on?
Another view
Erasing memory may prevent learning from mistakes.
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