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What does it mean?
Playing games in good company makes losing acceptable because the social connection is the real reward.
In plain terms
If you are with friends, losing doesn't matter because enjoying their company matters more.
What can you take from it?
Social connection outweighs victory in recreational activities.

Where it applies

  • game nights
  • team sports
  • recreational activities

Putting it to work

  • prioritize social play
  • accept losses gracefully
  • host inclusive games

Questions to consider

  • What matters more to you: winning or the experience?
  • How do you handle losing with friends?

Another view

Competitive players might still feel a strong desire to win regardless of company.

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