What really flatters a man is that you think him worth flattering.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- People feel flattered when they believe someone values their opinion enough to flatter them.
- In plain terms
- Men like being flattered because it shows you think they are important.
- What can you take from it?
- Flattery works because it signals respect.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is flattery manipulation or connection?
- What do we seek when flattered?
Another view
Sincere compliments are often better than calculated flattery.
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