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'Geniuses are horrid, intolerant, easily offended, sleeplessly self-conscious men, who expect their wives to be angels with no further business in life than to pet and worship their husbands. Even at the best they are not comfortable men to live with; and a perfect husband is one who is perfectly comfortable to live with.'

George Bernard Shaw#54

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Geniuses are often difficult partners, expecting worship rather than equality.
In plain terms
Smart people are hard to live with because they demand too much.
What can you take from it?
Great talent often comes with difficult personal traits.

Where it applies

  • partnerships
  • marriage
  • working with experts

Putting it to work

  • balance ambition with empathy
  • set boundaries

Questions to consider

  • Is comfort more important than genius?
  • How do you live with brilliance?

Another view

Not all geniuses are difficult; many are collaborative.

More from George Bernard Shaw

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  2. This is the true joy in life, the being used for a purpose recognized by yourself as a mighty one; the being thoroughly worn out before you are thrown on the s…

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  3. 'A man's own self is the last person to believe in him, and is harder to cheat than the rest of the world.'

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