The triumphal-procession-air which, in our manners and customs, is given to marriage at the outset - that singing of Te Deum before the battle has begun.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Celebrating marriage before it begins ignores the challenges couples will face.
- In plain terms
- Happiness before work is premature.
- What can you take from it?
- Expect challenges before celebrating.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Is celebration ever premature?
- How do you prepare for change?
Another view
Some find joy in ceremony regardless of future challenges.
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