In short, the way to avoid misunderstanding is for everybody to lie and slander and insinuate and pretend as hard as they can. That is what obeying your mother comes to.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Avoiding conflict often leads to deceptive behavior rather than honest communication.
- In plain terms
- To avoid trouble, people lie instead of talking openly.
- What can you take from it?
- Peace through silence breeds dishonesty.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Can you have harmony without honesty?
- How do you stop people people?
Another view
Sometimes tactful silence prevents unnecessary harm.
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