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What does it mean?
Friendship often connects only specific parts of people rather than their entire selves.
In plain terms
Friends connect only in certain parts not whole.
What can you take from it?
Friendship connects parts not whole.

Where it applies

  • socializing
  • psychology
  • self-analysis

Putting it to work

  • accept limitations
  • cultivate shared interests

Questions to consider

  • How deep is friendship?
  • Can you be friends with a whole person?

Another view

Deep friendships can sometimes involve whole selves.

More from George Santayana

  1. Friends are generally of the same sex, for when men and women agree,it is only in the conclusions; their reasons are always different.

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  2. Friends need not agree in everything or go always together, or have no comparable other friendships of the same intimacy.

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  3. Chaos is perhaps at the bottom of everything.

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