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What does it mean?
Condemning others for being self-centered makes you self-centered in your own way.
In plain terms
Getting angry at selfishness shows you are being selfish.
What can you take from it?
Judge intolerance with patience, not anger.

Where it applies

  • team conflict
  • social media arguments
  • personal relationships

Putting it to work

  • practicing empathy
  • stepping back before reacting
  • self-reflection

Questions to consider

  • How do you respond when you feel attacked?
  • Is it possible to oppose a flaw without becoming it?

Another view

This logic can be used to excuse harmful intolerant behavior.

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