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What does it mean?
People may accept being deceived, but they resent the humiliation of realizing and accepting it openly.
In plain terms
People tolerate deception but hate the shame of admitting they were tricked.
What can you take from it?
Pride makes people resist acknowledging deception.

Where it applies

  • business deals
  • relationships
  • public scandals

Putting it to work

  • avoid public embarrassment
  • manage trust breaches

Questions to consider

  • Why do we prefer being lied to over knowing?
  • How does pride affect truth?

Another view

Some people do not care about the shame of being deceived.

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