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What does it mean?
Social gatherings often involve excluding or mocking outsiders to bond insiders.
In plain terms
Parties can feel like secret plots against people not invited.
What can you take from it?
Be aware that exclusivity can create an us-versus-them dynamic.

Where it applies

  • private parties
  • corporate events
  • social cliques

Putting it to work

  • consider inclusivity
  • reflect on outsider treatment

Questions to consider

  • Who benefits from being excluded?
  • How do I treat those not in my group?

Another view

Not all gatherings are intentionally hostile to outsiders.

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