Be courteous to all, but intimate with few; and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence. True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Friendship requires time, adversity, and careful selection of confidants.
- In plain terms
- Build few friendships and test them over time before trusting them.
- What can you take from it?
- Choose friends carefully and let time test them.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you test a friend?
- Is solitude safer than risk?
Another view
This view may discourage necessary vulnerability in new relationships.
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