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About this quote

What does it mean?
Friendship requires time, adversity, and careful selection of confidants.
In plain terms
Build few friendships and test them over time before trusting them.
What can you take from it?
Choose friends carefully and let time test them.

Where it applies

  • making friends
  • building trust
  • navigating conflict

Putting it to work

  • cultivate deep friendships
  • test trust over time

Questions to consider

  • How do you test a friend?
  • Is solitude safer than risk?

Another view

This view may discourage necessary vulnerability in new relationships.

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