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What does it mean?
Being polite is not separate from facts; it is simply another fact of social interaction.
In plain terms
Politeness is just another part of how things are.
What can you take from it?
Politeness is a fact like any other.

Where it applies

  • conflict
  • socializing
  • negotiation

Putting it to work

  • respect others
  • acknowledge norms
  • stay calm

Questions to consider

  • Is politeness always honest?
  • When does it matter?

Another view

Sometimes politeness hides important facts.

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