Politeness is organized indifference.
BehaviorEmotionIndifferenceInteractionPolitenessSocialSocial norms
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Politeness often masks a lack of genuine engagement or care.
- In plain terms
- Being polite can mean you do not truly care about others.
- What can you take from it?
- True connection requires more than just courteous behavior.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- When does politeness feel cold?
- How do you show real care?
Another view
Politeness can also be a sign of respect without indifference.
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