No one has even begun to understand comradeship who does not accept with it a certain hearty eagerness in eating, drinking, or smoking, an uproarious materialism which to many women appears only hoggish. You may call the thing an orgy or a sacrament; it is certainly an essential. It is at root a resistance to the superciliousness of the individual. Nay, its very swaggering and howling are humble. In the heart of its rowdiness there is a sort of mad modesty; a desire to melt the separate soul into the mass of unpretentious masculinity. It is a clamorous confession of the weakness of all flesh. No man must be superior to the things that are common to men. This sort of equality must be bodily and gross and comic. Not only are we all in the same boat, but we are all seasick.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Strong bonds often form through shared physical activities and lack of individual pretense.
- In plain terms
- Friendship needs shared fun and letting go of ego.
- What can you take from it?
- Bond through shared action, not just talk.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How do you build trust?
- What breaks your connection?
Another view
Not all bonds need physical or loud expression.
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