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[After the 1990 bus accident] I could not feel my legs, and I knew that I was paralysed. For me, this was a premonition of my worst fate proved right. When I was a child, I always ran up the stairs two at a time, and when I reached the top I would say to myself, one day I won't be able to do this because like my father I will lose the use of my body. Now I knew it had happened. For months afterwards I was locked back in myself, just as I had been when I was a child. But also part of my premonition had always been, strangely, that I would lose my body but in the end it would be all right.

Gloria Estefan#173

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About this quote

What does it mean?
She describes the trauma of paralysis following an accident, linking it to childhood fears but also to a prior sense that things would ultimately be okay.
In plain terms
She was paralyzed in an accident which matched her childhood fears, but she believed it would work out.
What can you take from it?
Fear can become reality, but hope can persist through trauma.

Where it applies

  • recovering from injury
  • facing fears
  • dealing with loss

Putting it to work

  • process trauma
  • face childhood fears
  • find hope in hardship

Questions to consider

  • Have you ever felt a fear come true?
  • How do you cope with worst-case scenarios?

Another view

Premonitions are subjective and cannot be objectively verified.

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