I can understand companionship. I can understand bought sex in the afternoon, but I cannot understand the love affair.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Vidal distinguishes between companionship and sex, saying he does not understand romantic love affairs.
- In plain terms
- He finds physical and platonic connections clear but romantic love confusing.
- What can you take from it?
- Romantic relationships can seem inexplicable.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What is love?
- Why do we romanticize relationships?
Another view
Love is often understood through experience rather than logic.
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