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What does it mean?
The speaker distinguishes themselves from the masses by intentionally doing the opposite of what is common.
In plain terms
I made sure not to do what everyone else did.
What can you take from it?
Define yourself by resisting conformity.

Where it applies

  • personal branding
  • artistic expression
  • leadership

Putting it to work

  • challenging norms
  • pursuing niche interests
  • avoiding trends

Questions to consider

  • What common habit are you resisting?
  • Is your uniqueness genuine or performative?

Another view

Deliberate contrarianism can become a personality itself.

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