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What does it mean?
People often envy the lives of others and want to belong to them.
In plain terms
We long to live inside others' worlds.
What can you take from it?
Be wary of idealizing other people's lives.

Where it applies

  • social media
  • romantic idealization
  • friendship

Putting it to work

  • focus on your path
  • question assumptions
  • build real connections

Questions to consider

  • Whose life do you envy?
  • What do you wish you could enter?

Another view

Sometimes connection is healthy and realistic.

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  3. He took it for granted that she was content; and she resented his settled calm, his serene dullness, the very happiness she herself brought him.

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