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He had had such things said to him so many times that none of them had any freshness for him. Emma was like all his other mistresses; and as the charm of novelty gradually slipped from her like a piece of her clothing, he saw revealed in all its nakedness the eternal monotony of passion, which always assumes the same forms and always speaks the same language. . . . Whereas the truth is that fullness of soul can sometimes overflow in utter vapidity of language, for none of us can ever express the exact measure of his needs or his thoughts or his sorrows; and human speech is like a cracked kettle on which we tap crude rhythms for bears to dance to, while we long to make music that will melt the stars.

Gustave Flaubert#55

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Human language fails to express deep inner states, reducing profound emotions to cliché and repetition.
In plain terms
Words are too limited to capture our true feelings and thoughts.
What can you take from it?
Language often falls short of inner experience.

Where it applies

  • articulating grief
  • confessing love
  • writing poetry

Putting it to work

  • acknowledge limits of speech
  • use metaphor

Questions to consider

  • What feels unspoken in your life?
  • Do you trust words to convey truth?

Another view

Language still manages connection despite these limits.

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