Gradually, growing calmer, she came to see that she had been unjust to him. But casting aspersions on those we love always does something to loosen our ties. We shouldn't maltreat our idols: the gilt comes off on our hands.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Treating loved ones poorly damages relationships, and criticizing people we admire weakens our connection to them.
- In plain terms
- Do not mistreat the people you look up to.
- What can you take from it?
- Protect your relationships from unnecessary criticism.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Have you pushed away someone you loved through criticism?
Another view
Sometimes criticism is necessary for growth.
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