He even did his best to stop loving her; then at the sound of her footsteps he would feel his will desert him, like a drunkard at the sight of strong liquor.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- A person tries to stop loving someone but finds their resolve dissolves instantly upon encountering reminders of that person.
- In plain terms
- He tried to stop loving her but gave up as soon as he heard her footsteps.
- What can you take from it?
- Intentional control over love often fails when triggers are present.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- Can willpower stop love?
- What triggers your emotions?
Another view
Willpower can succeed with enough time and distance from triggers.
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