'That,' I said, 'would be a blessing. There are so many things I'd like to forget I hardly know what would be left standing, if I ever got started.'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Forgetting painful things might leave so little of the self that identity is at risk.
- In plain terms
- If I forgot everything painful, I might not have any life left.
- What can you take from it?
- Painful memories are part of what makes us who we are.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- How much of you is your pain?
- What would you forget if you could?
Another view
Holding onto pain can prevent moving forward.
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