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What does it mean?
Random chance plays a big role in forming friendships and marriages.
In plain terms
Accidents matter a lot in marriage and companionship.
What can you take from it?
Accept that luck influences relationships significantly.

Where it applies

  • dating
  • friendship
  • life planning

Putting it to work

  • be open to serendipity
  • value connections
  • reduce control

Questions to consider

  • How much of love is luck?
  • Can we plan for accident?

Another view

Some relationships result more from deliberate choice than accident.

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