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What does it mean?
We only recognize virtues that we possess ourselves; appreciation is limited by our own qualities.
In plain terms
We see virtues we have in ourselves.
What can you take from it?
Develop the virtues you wish to appreciate in others.

Where it applies

  • in relationships
  • during personal growth
  • in leadership

Putting it to work

  • practice empathy
  • cultivate humility

Questions to consider

  • Which virtues do you feel you lack?
  • How can you develop them?

Another view

One can admire virtues they lack without possessing them.

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