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What does it mean?
People tend to project their own moral standards onto others, assuming everyone shares their level of virtue.
In plain terms
We often think others are as good as we are.
What can you take from it?
Be aware that your perception of others may reflect your own character.

Where it applies

  • judging others
  • self-reflection
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • evaluate your own bias
  • ask before assuming

Questions to consider

  • How often do you assume others think like you?
  • What does your view of others say about you?

Another view

Not everyone shares the same moral compass as you do.

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