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What does it mean?
We lack honesty, sincerity, steadiness, and solidity because we don't demand them from each other.
In plain terms
We don't expect or teach honesty and stability to one another.
What can you take from it?
Demand higher moral standards in relationships.

Where it applies

  • friendship
  • teamwork
  • family life

Putting it to work

  • set clear expectations
  • model integrity

Questions to consider

  • What standards do I expect from others?
  • How can I encourage honesty in my circles?

Another view

People may resist higher demands if they feel judged.

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