True happiness, we are told, consists in getting out of one's self; but the point is not only to get out - you must stay out; and to stay out you must have some absorbing errand.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Happiness involves escaping oneself but requires staying outside with a meaningful purpose.
- In plain terms
- Happiness means getting out of yourself and staying there with a purpose.
- What can you take from it?
- Find absorbing purposes to maintain happiness.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What absorbs you completely?
- How do you escape yourself?
Another view
Self-reflection is also necessary for growth and balance.
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