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What does it mean?
Happiness is found by focusing the mind on objects other than one's own happiness.
In plain terms
To be happy, focus on something other than seeking happiness.
What can you take from it?
Seek meaning beyond personal happiness to find it.

Where it applies

  • personal reflection
  • mental health
  • philosophy

Putting it to work

  • find purpose
  • focus outward

Questions to consider

  • Can you pursue happiness directly?
  • What else can you focus on?

Another view

It suggests ignoring happiness pursuit paradoxically achieves it.

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