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What does it mean?
Individual destinies are unique; support comes through kindness rather than direction.
In plain terms
Let people find their way with kindness.
What can you take from it?
Offer kindness, not control.

Where it applies

  • parenting
  • mentoring
  • friendship

Putting it to work

  • supporting others gently
  • respecting autonomy

Questions to consider

  • How do you help others?
  • Do they need control?

Another view

Sometimes direct help is more needed than patience.

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  3. To be generous is to say yes before the man even opens his mouth.

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