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What does it mean?
A smile can hide true intentions or meanings, making it hard to know what someone really feels.
In plain terms
Smiles often mask what people truly mean.
What can you take from it?
Do not assume a smile always means happiness.

Where it applies

  • social interactions
  • negotiations
  • conflict resolution

Putting it to work

  • read body language
  • ask clarifying questions

Questions to consider

  • When did a smile mislead you?
  • How can you tell if a smile is real?

Another view

Sometimes a smile is genuine and not ambiguous at all.

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