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What does it mean?
Illusions comfort us by smoothing over the distance between what we want and what is true.
In plain terms
We create false hopes to ease the pain of unmet desires.
What can you take from it?
Recognize when comfort comes from denial.

Where it applies

  • personal disappointment
  • relationship conflicts
  • self-deception

Putting it to work

  • question comforting beliefs
  • face facts directly

Questions to consider

  • When do you use illusions to cope?
  • Is comfort worth the cost of truth?

Another view

Sometimes illusion provides necessary temporary relief from overwhelming truth.

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