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What does it mean?
Mothers should seek men who embody protective spirit, discerning insight, and foresight—these are the theological virtues of marriage.
In plain terms
Ideal partners combine protection, insight, and foresight.
What can you take from it?
Look for these virtues when choosing a spouse.

Where it applies

  • courtship
  • family planning

Putting it to work

  • evaluating character
  • seeking balanced partners

Questions to consider

  • Which virtue matters most to you in a partner?
  • Can virtues be taught?

Another view

People may prioritize other traits over theological virtues.

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