I...chose a wife, as she did her wedding gown, not for a fine glossy surface, but such qualities as would wear well.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Choosing a wife based on inner qualities that last, rather than just a pretty appearance.
- In plain terms
- Pick a partner for lasting qualities, not just looks.
- What can you take from it?
- Valuing substance over surface leads to better long-term choices.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What qualities matter most in a partner?
- Does surface level attraction lead to long happiness?
Another view
Looks matter to some people and can change over time.
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