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What does it mean?
Serve all women, but love only one.
In plain terms
Treat women with respect, but keep a singular love.
What can you take from it?
Balance courtesy with personal devotion.

Where it applies

  • courtship
  • social interactions

Putting it to work

  • show respect to many
  • commit to one partner

Questions to consider

  • Is it possible to serve many while loving one?
  • How does this affect gender dynamics?

Another view

This view can be seen as objectifying.

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