'In twenty years,' I said, smiling at her tears, 'a man grows humble, Mary. I have stored within me a great fund of affection, with nobody to give it to, and I swear to you, on the word of a soldier, that if there is one of those ladies who can be got to care for me I shall be very proud.' Despite her semblance of delight I knew that she was wondering at me, and I wondered at myself, but it was true.
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Time and experience make people more humble and appreciative of connection. The speaker admits to having love to give but no recipient.
- In plain terms
- Years make a man humble and eager to share his love.
- What can you take from it?
- Experience teaches humility and the value of sharing love.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What has age taught you?
- Who do you want to share your love with?
Another view
Some people remain arrogant despite age and experience.
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