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'In twenty years,' I said, smiling at her tears, 'a man grows humble, Mary. I have stored within me a great fund of affection, with nobody to give it to, and I swear to you, on the word of a soldier, that if there is one of those ladies who can be got to care for me I shall be very proud.' Despite her semblance of delight I knew that she was wondering at me, and I wondered at myself, but it was true.

J. M. Barrie#22

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Time and experience make people more humble and appreciative of connection. The speaker admits to having love to give but no recipient.
In plain terms
Years make a man humble and eager to share his love.
What can you take from it?
Experience teaches humility and the value of sharing love.

Where it applies

  • aging reflections
  • seeking companionship
  • personal growth

Putting it to work

  • express vulnerability
  • seek connection
  • reflect on growth

Questions to consider

  • What has age taught you?
  • Who do you want to share your love with?

Another view

Some people remain arrogant despite age and experience.

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