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What does it mean?
Loneliness increases with age, marking the passage of time.
In plain terms
Getting older often means being more alone.
What can you take from it?
Prepare emotionally for increasing solitude in later years.

Where it applies

  • aging
  • retirement
  • life stages

Putting it to work

  • Build connections early
  • Accept solitude

Questions to consider

  • How do you cope with solitude?
  • Is aging inherently lonely?

Another view

Not everyone feels lonely as they age.

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