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She felt very much alone. She did not make friends very easily, but I don't want to make out that she was always miserable. When she was in middle age, she was quite a charming and lively person, because the actress in her would come out. She'd been an actor, as I said earlier on. It wasn't until she became a guru herself after Gurdjieff died, that she became a rather self-important, morose kind of Pamela.

P. L. Travers#30

BiographyAgeAgingChangeLonelinessPersonalitySocial

About this quote

What does it mean?
Travers was a complex person who was lonely yet charming in middle age, becoming more self-important later in life.
In plain terms
She was lonely but charming, and later became more self-centered.
What can you take from it?
People change over time and can hold different traits.

Where it applies

  • biography writing
  • understanding aging
  • personal reflection

Putting it to work

  • observing behavior changes
  • writing character studies

Questions to consider

  • How has your personality changed with age?
  • Can you be lonely and social?

Another view

It relies on one perspective of her personality changes.

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