'Why can't you fly now, mother?' 'Because I am grown up, dearest. When people grow up they forget the way.' 'Why do they forget the way?' 'Because they are no longer gay and innocent and heartless. It is only the gay and innocent and heartless who can fly.'
About this quote
- What does it mean?
- Growing up causes people to lose their ability to imagine and be joyful. Only those who retain innocence and lack worldly concerns can access wonder.
- In plain terms
- Adults forget how to fly because they lose their innocence and joy.
- What can you take from it?
- Keep your sense of wonder to stay youthful.
Where it applies
Putting it to work
Questions to consider
- What makes you feel most alive?
- How has your imagination changed?
Another view
Not all adults lose their sense of wonder or imagination.
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