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What does it mean?
Discovering one's true self can lead to tragic realization or disillusionment.
In plain terms
Finding yourself can end in sadness.
What can you take from it?
Self-discovery can bring pain.

Where it applies

  • identity crisis
  • aging
  • career

Putting it to work

  • reflect deeply
  • accept reality

Questions to consider

  • Who are you really?
  • What is the tragedy?

Another view

Self-discovery can also bring peace.

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