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'One day, when I was young, my Dad brought home a guitar. I was quite intrigued and went to pick it up but he said, 'Son, unless you can wail on that thing like Nuno Bettencourt from Extreme or maybe Steve Vai when he was playing with David Lee Roth and he had the sweet double-necked guitar that was like two legs coming out of a heart, keep your damn hands off it!' And I never touched a guitar again. So to answer your question, yes, I answer the phone whether it rings or not.'

Jade Puget#36

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About this quote

What does it mean?
A strict childhood lesson stopped the speaker from playing guitar, so now they answer the phone instead.
In plain terms
My dad told me not to touch the guitar unless I could play like a pro.
What can you take from it?
High expectations can kill interest.

Where it applies

  • parenting mistakes
  • skill expectations
  • learning barriers

Putting it to work

  • avoid stifling curiosity
  • keep learning accessible

Questions to consider

  • What stopped you from pursuing a hobby?
  • How do you set expectations for learners?

Another view

Humor doesn't undo the damage of discouragement.

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