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What does it mean?
A childlike exchange of insults shows how people often contradict themselves when defending feelings.
In plain terms
People love to insult others while being hypocritical themselves.
What can you take from it?
Expect contradictions when people argue about feelings.

Where it applies

  • argument escalation
  • relationship teasing
  • childish squabble

Putting it to work

  • spot contradictions in arguments
  • see through defensiveness

Questions to consider

  • Why do people contradict themselves in arguments?
  • How do you stop escalating insults?

Another view

Reductio ad absurdum doesn't resolve conflict.

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