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What does it mean?
Garfield reflects that past troubles were bearable compared to what might have happened.
In plain terms
The worst possible troubles never actually happened to him.
What can you take from it?
Gratitude comes from recognizing avoided misfortunes.

Where it applies

  • personal reflection
  • comforting others
  • life reviews

Putting it to work

  • reframe hardship
  • find comfort
  • avoid despair

Questions to consider

  • How do you measure your own hardships?
  • What if things had gone worse?

Another view

It minimizes actual suffering by comparing it to hypothetical worse cases.

More from James A. Garfield

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  2. I mean to make myself a man, and if I succeed in that, I shall succeed in everything else.

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  3. History is philosophy teaching by example, and also warning; its two eyes are geography and chronology.

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