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Any real change implies the breakup of the world as one has always known it, the loss of all that gave one an identity, the end of safety. And at such a moment, unable to see and not daring to imagine what the future will now bring forth, one clings to what one knew, or dreamed that one possessed. Yet, it is only when a man is able, without bitterness or self-pity, to surrender a dream he has long cherished or a privilege he has long possessed that he is set free - he has set himself free - for higher dreams, for greater privileges.

James Baldwin#10

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About this quote

What does it mean?
Real change requires surrendering familiar identity and safety, but letting go of long-held dreams frees one for greater privileges.
In plain terms
Change means losing what you know, but letting go frees you for more.
What can you take from it?
Surrender familiar dreams to gain freedom for higher goals.

Where it applies

  • personal transformation
  • career change
  • political revolution

Putting it to work

  • let go of old plans
  • accept uncertainty
  • seek new goals

Questions to consider

  • What must you give up to grow?
  • Is freedom worth the risk?

Another view

It assumes everyone has the capacity to surrender without resentment.

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