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What does it mean?
Genuine hospitality is more common abroad than among the American poor, who hide it behind pride.
In plain terms
Foreigners are more welcoming than poor Americans due to pride.
What can you take from it?
Pride can block hospitality among the disadvantaged.

Where it applies

  • cross-cultural interaction
  • community dynamics
  • poverty

Putting it to work

  • recognizing hidden kindness
  • addressing shame

Questions to consider

  • How does poverty affect kindness?
  • Is pride a barrier to help?

Another view

Pride might also protect dignity in difficult circumstances.

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