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What does it mean?
We hoped that shared suffering would make us realize we are all in it together and help us heal.
In plain terms
We thought tragedy would make us see we share a fate and work together.
What can you take from it?
Shared suffering can create bonds but does not always guarantee healing.

Where it applies

  • crisis response
  • community building
  • post-conflict

Putting it to work

  • focus on shared goals
  • build trust
  • support collective healing

Questions to consider

  • Does shared pain always bring people together?
  • How do you turn tragedy into cooperation?

Another view

Tragedy sometimes divides rather than unites people.

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